Nikkah is the holy matrimony in Islam, which is not only a legal agreement between two people but. It is a marriage that is approved by Allah, a covenant to stand by each other in the good and the bad of life. Before getting ready for this important occasion, it is crucial to make a true dua to find out the blessings, direction, and power. In this article, we are going to discuss the significance of dua for marriage in Islam and the duas that should be recited before Nikkah.
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The following are some of the dua’s that are suggested to be said before the Nikkah to get blessings from Allah Almighty. This is not only for the bride and the groom but also for the families that are involved in the marriage to make sure that there are blessings in the marriage.
The following are some of the dua that is usually recited before Nikkah is the Dua for Righteousness and Piety in Marriage. Here is the verse that we picked from the Quran: ‘O Allah, grant us righteousness and piety in the marriage’. The dua reads: And He said: “Our Lord, give us from among our wives and our offspring comfort to our eyes and make us an example for the righteous” (Quran 25:74). In this dua the couple wishes to be a source of comfort to one another and ask for their marriage to be a model of righteousness. It is a prayer for the couple seeking Allah’s help in making their relationship not only peaceful but also a model Muslim couple.
Dua for the Newly Wed Couple in Islam
Another important prayer is the Dua for the newlywed and Blessings in Marriage. This dua is a form of prayer that the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) has taught to newlyweds, and it is highly valued in Islamic culture. The dua is simple yet profound: “May Allah bless you and send blessings upon you, and may He join you both in goodness. ” This is a beautiful statement of prayers for the marriage to be blessed by Allah and for the couple to be happy and not have any form of contention. It also tells us that marriage is a blessing from Allah and it has to be one that is sustained.
The third dua is the Dua for Seeking Allah’s Guidance and it is more general than the previous duas as it seek Allah’s protection and mercy in every aspect of life including marriage. The dua states: For instance: “Our Lord, give us in this world what is good and in the Hereafter what is good and save us from the torment of the Fire” (Quran 2:201). This supplication is a prayer for a healthy marriage life that shall be blessed with the pleasure of the duo as well as their reward in the Hereafter. This shows that marriage that exist in this world should also be one that will lead to success in the hereafter. With this dua, the couple seek Allah’s blessing and mercy so that they can make the right decisions in their life that is pleasing to Allah.
Family as a Factor in Making Du’a
The role of family in marriage cannot be undermined in the Islamic culture as has been highlighted in this paper. Marriage is a process that is blessed in Islam and the bride and groom are supposed to make dua for marriage; the families of the bride and groom also have the role of making dua. The participation and especially the intervention of close relatives in the Making of Dua before Nikkah makes the two families became closer and makes sure that they bless the couple for the new life they are about to build.
When the family members are making the dua for the couple then not only are they seeking Allah’s blessings for the couple but they are also promising their support to the couple in their marriage. Offering dua together creates togetherness, which is very advantageous for the marriage in that it helps achieve the marriage goals. Prayers of the family for the couple are the spiritual support that the couple needs in order to have a strong and healthy relationship.
Family Support System
Furthermore, family members recommend certain duas they believe to be suitable for the marriage, based on their knowledge and experience in Islam. This mutual prayer also fosters the spirit of affection, encouragement and spiritual orientation as the young man and woman begins a new phase in their union. The involvement of the family in making dua as also points to family support system as embraced in Islamic marriages as practices where the collapsed husband and wife shall be judged based on their interaction with the remaining family members.
By doing the dua before Nikkah, families accept Allah’s will and blessing and accept that the marriage is made in heaven and nobody can change it, hence making dua before Nikkah symbolize the belief of the families in Allah. Such a collective prayer to be blessed by Allah in Marriage creates a positive image for the marriage and make them understand that they are not alone in the marriage but supported by both their families spiritually.
The Bottom Line
Dua before Nikkah is very essential in the Islamic marriage process and Islamic law allows a man to make dua before Nikkah. It is a means by which the blessings of Allah could be solicited, a positive indication that the joining is going to be smooth and successful and a good start to the kind of life that has been advised – a life of righteousness. When entering this new chapter of your life, just as any new undertaking, make sure your intentions are pure, mind focused and duas many. May Allah bless all those embracing the holy matrimony/union of life called Nikkah happiness, piety and a life full of barakah. Ameen.
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FAQs
Q1: Can one offer supplication in a particular time before Nikkah?
It has been illustrated that there are no restrictions as to when dua should be made but it is done at certain instances like before Nikkah, after the prayers as well as during the Nikkah ceremony.
Q2. Does it mean that relatives of the newlywed couples can make dua for the couple?
Of course, people can ask others, especially family members to make dua for the newlywed couple. It is people’s prayers that contribute to the overall grace on the marriage.
Q3: In Hadith is there any special dua for marriage side?
Yes it is, the dua “ May Allah bless you and send blessings upon you, and may He unite you both in good” is from Hadith and mostly used by newlyweds.
Q4: Is It permissible to make dua in my own choice of words prior to Nikkah?
Absolutely. And though there are special invocations directed to this occasion, you may say almost anything you may wish for your marriage.